Compassionate Divorce Counseling
in San Diego, CA

Why Choose Divorce Counseling in San Diego?
Amicable or not, divorce is a challenging life transition for anyone. Through professional divorce counseling, our local therapists in San Diego provide emotional support. As you face the challenges of co-parenting, asset division, and relocation, your mental health is more important than ever. Let us help you reclaim your life and regain a sense of self—for at every end of a relationship is a new beginning of self-journey.
Licensed Therapists Who Understand Divorce Trauma
At Estes Therapy, we provide divorce counseling individually or for couples in San Diego, California. Before and after divorce, people experience divorce trauma—or distress ranging from grief, anger, anxiety, depression, and loss.
Our licensed marriage and family therapists are here to help you:
- Manage the complex emotions and symptoms of divorce trauma so you can face the significant changes happening in your life with confidence.
- Create a new way to communicate and handle differences with your ex-partner in a safer or more amicable divorce process.
- Improve relationships with your children and help them adjust to the big changes in their home life.
With a trauma-informed approach, we’re here to help you find clarity and discover what’s truly best for you and your family.

How Divorce Counseling at Estes Therapy Supports You Through Change
Divorce can be extremely painful for everyone involved. It can cause the following toll on mental health from the legal, emotional, and logistical issues that have to be addressed. Estes Therapy provides pre-, mid-, and post-divorce counseling to help you move forward with strength, support, and confidence to face the challenges that come with divorce.
Pre-Divorce Counseling: Emotional Preparation and Navigation
If you and your partner are still considering divorce, your licensed therapist at Estes Therapy can help you decide through pre-divorce counseling. By providing a safe and supportive space, your therapist helps create a foundation for respectful communication during difficult conversations, including:
- Determining whether the marriage can be saved or if separation is the best path forward.
- Communicating effectively and respectfully while navigating co-parenting plans and dividing assets, debts, and property.
- Addressing divorce-related parenting challenges with clarity and care.
- Guidance on how to talk to your children about the divorce in a way that minimizes emotional distress and trauma.
- Identifying and managing overwhelming emotions related to the divorce through healthy, constructive coping strategies.
Divorce Counseling During the Divorce Process
Your divorce may be sudden, shocked at being presented with divorce papers. Or it may also have been a long time coming. We offer divorce counseling individually or with the other party. Divorce counseling during the divorce process can help ground you through this major life transition. Together, we can support you in the following ways:
- Receive compassionate emotional support as you navigate the many changes affecting every part of your life.
- Gain insight into why the relationship ended and identify unhealthy patterns—such as criticism, emotional withdrawal, or avoidance—to help prevent them in future relationships.
- Develop essential coping skills to manage the overwhelming and often conflicting emotions that come with divorce.
- Strengthen communication skills with your former partner and your children to promote understanding and reduce conflict.
- Adopt effective co-parenting strategies that prioritize your child’s well-being and encourage respectful, cooperative parenting.
Post-Divorce Counseling to Heal, Rebuild, and Move Forward
Life after divorce can feel heavy despite the relief that it’s over. As an individual adjusts to new routines and a new identity after divorce, they may struggle with grief at the dissolution of their long-term committed relationship. They may feel uncertain about the future after what they have gone through. Here is what our post-divorce counseling can do for you:
- Help you navigate the aftermath of divorce and rediscover your identity beyond the relationship.
- Provide tools and techniques to rebuild self-esteem and strengthen self-confidence.
- Support you in processing lingering emotions toward your ex-spouse in a healthy, constructive way that fosters healing and growth.
Meet Our San Diego-Based Therapists Specializing in Divorce Support
At Estes Therapy, our team of licensed marriage and family therapists is here to provide trauma-informed care for divorce recovery. You can book an appointment with one of our therapists directly. You can also call us at (619) 558-0001 for a free 10-minute matching appointment with our Care Coordinator to find a therapist that’s a perfect match for you. Click the button below to meet our team.
How Long Is the Process and Each Session of Divorce Counseling?
Our divorce counseling in San Diego, CA, can last 6 to 12 sessions or more, depending on the complexity of the issues faced by the clients. Each session can last 45 to 60 minutes. You can have your session in person or online through our virtual therapy.
While we do not bill insurance directly, we offer Super Bills that you can submit to your insurance provider to potentially reimburse therapy costs.

Start Healing Today – Book Your Free 10-Minute Consultation
Even when amicable, ending a long-term relationship is a significant life transition that can deeply affect you emotionally. You don’t have to go through it alone. Schedule an appointment with us today and take the first step toward reclaiming your life and rediscovering your identity.