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Ladies….Sex Doesn’t Need to be a “chore!”

Countless women across the world feel as if sex is more like a job and less of a special bonding time. When sex feels like a requirement or an expectation, the desire to be intimate can quickly dwindle away.  Not only can it feel like a job, the ongoing pressures and the mental “to-do” list over take the mind and become a prominent thought.  Even further, woman experience sex as a hassle, avoids the topic at all cost, is self conscious of their body, and/or dislikes the sexual act itself.  Does this sound familiar?

The physical bond of intimacy is the rawest form of feeling attached and connected for couples.  But what happens to relationships when sex feels like a job?  This job-like view of sex eliminates the special connection, it prevents women from enjoying the experience, and it builds distance between two people.  Good news, sex doesn’t have to be a job, work, or a chore! Read More→

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Work, kids, dinner, cleaning, bills, errands, social life …the list is endless.  One of our society’s theme for life is “keep working, keep doing.”  It is very helpful for business, yet can creating more of a “routine” in the bedroom.   Simply because life has a routine, doesn’t mean the intimacy needs to be on autopilot.

Here are a few tips to spice up the bedroom connection: Read More→

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We all know the story. On your wedding day, you are absolutely in love with your soon to be spouse. Most couples often feel a sense of absolute happiness, love, connection, and excitement. You may not look back on your wedding day with those exact feelings… but the next part of this story may sound more familiar. The bond probably seemed so tight that nothing could pull it apart…but, you learned otherwise. What happened to that bond after many years of routine and added responsibility such as children, work, bills, cleaning, health, and all of life’s other little obstacles? Somewhere the relationship got moved to the “back burner” and just surviving day-to-day life became the central focus. While you were living the daily American routine of working too much and trying to cope with Life’s ongoing struggles, the romance that sparked the marriage began to diminish.

I am going to teach you what you already know; marriage doesn’t have to be routine, boring and dry. It may not be easy, and it may not always be fun. How you experience saving your relationship often depends on…. Yes, you guessed it…You. Hopefully you and your significant other are both trying to fix things, but right now, this is about You. The following quick tips will help You get the romance to spark again: Read More→

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Communication in the BedroomThis photo says it all.  What messages do you send to your partner in the bed?  Do you send the message that you are open for intimacy?  Do you show that you care?

Take a look at what non-verbal messages you send to your partner.  Think about how they might respond. Read More→

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Intimacy is an all-encompassing word with sex being merely an offshoot. Intimacy is a substance that supplements the healthiest relationships by allowing partners to share their physical and emotional selves.

If you find it in yourself to be more emotionally intimate in your relationship, both you and your loved one will definitely reap the rewards in the bedroom!

Here are the top ten ways to increase and upkeep intimacy in your relationship: Read More→

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