Archive for Bedroom Communication

Every one (and I think I can say this as a blanket statement) is impacted in one way or another from the economic stress; businesses closing, loss of jobs, constant worry about job security, foreclosing the home, friends struggling, or simply the news telling you another bad thing. Anxiety may be higher than ever, but this doesn’t mean you have to stop connecting with your partner.  In fact, this is the time to support one another through the stress and help alleviate the pain.

A few years back, my husband was in school and I was starting my therapy practice.  We didn’t have much money at the time, yet we realized the importance of nurturing the relationship.  We started a game called $20 Date Night where every Friday night we switched off with creating the date. The goal is to create a date with only spending $20 or less. To our surprise, we came up with many dates; it just took imagination and creativity.  To this day, we continue or date night challenge… Read More→

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Relationship Counseling in San Diego

Rape is more than simply a trauma; it is a life long ordeal with continual distress.  The forced sex takes away control, forces extreme violation, causes physical pains, and creates severe emotional trauma.  Recovering from such a traumatic incident can be challenging and life altering.  Some people find themselves reaching out to others for support and comfort.  Others may hold things in, shut down, numb-out, or even become self destructive.  All of which are ways in which the body is saying, “I am hurting. I need to feel safe. I need to heal.” Read More→

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Communication in the BedroomThis photo says it all.  What messages do you send to your partner in the bed?  Do you send the message that you are open for intimacy?  Do you show that you care?

Take a look at what non-verbal messages you send to your partner.  Think about how they might respond. Read More→

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Intimacy is an all-encompassing word with sex being merely an offshoot. Intimacy is a substance that supplements the healthiest relationships by allowing partners to share their physical and emotional selves.

If you find it in yourself to be more emotionally intimate in your relationship, both you and your loved one will definitely reap the rewards in the bedroom!

Here are the top ten ways to increase and upkeep intimacy in your relationship: Read More→

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