More Sex? Here are a Few Tips to Spice up the Bedroom Intimacy

Work, kids, dinner, cleaning, bills, errands, social life …the list is endless.  One of our society’s theme for life is “keep working, keep doing.”  It is very helpful for business, yet can creating more of a “routine” in the bedroom.   Simply because life has a routine, doesn’t mean the intimacy needs to be on autopilot.

Here are a few tips to spice up the bedroom connection:

1. Get out of Routine!! Surprise your partner by doing something out of the ordinary.  If you meet him at the door with dinner, meet him at the door only wearing stilettos. If you have sex only in the morning, find a way to wake up in the middle of the night.
2. Change your Role: Intimacy often comes with roles….make an effort to change your role to show your partner your interest. If your partner is the pursuer, make it your goal to pursue your partner.
3. Change Locations. Sex shouldn’t have to be limited to one location and one position.  Make an effort to change the location and do something out of the ordinary.  If your intimacy is only consists of in the bedroom, find a way to bring it to new locations.
4. Wear Lingerie: Dressing in sweats and long t-shirts to bed can be extremely comfortable, but it also doesn’t allow your partner to see your interest.  This is not only for him, but for you as well.  Feel sexy more often, while connecting in the bedroom.
5. Start to Mind-Prep: Majority of men can become aroused simply be an image or thought.  The downside is that women don’t function the same way!  Many women have difficulty getting “in the mood” and need a little jump start.  Start preparing your mind throughout the day to help you get in the mood.
6. Slow-to-Warm: Many women need more to get them in the mood than just rubbing a special place.  Partners need to understand that intimacy for many women starts in the morning with a kiss, continues through the day with stimulating conversation, and peaks in the bedroom.  For some people, intimacy can be based off of connecting throughout the day.
7. Ask About Needs: Your partner isn’t a mind reader and might not be able to know exactly what you want.  Ask and show your partner what you like and what you want within the intimacy.  Don’t forget to ask your partner about what they want and need in the bedroom.

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